Quick answer
A head table seats the two of you in the middle with the wedding party on either side. A sweetheart table seats only the two of you and lets the wedding party sit with their own partners and friends. Choose by the size of your wedding party and whether you want time alone during dinner.
The traditional head table
The couple sits in the center, facing the guests. Traditionally the best man sits beside the bride and the maid or matron of honor beside the groom, with the rest of the wedding party alternating outward. Arrange your own version however suits you: the order matters less than everyone facing the room.
Partners of the wedding party
A head table often splits up the wedding party from their partners. Either seat partners at the head table too, if there is room, or give them a table nearby so they are not stranded with strangers. Our seating chart tool starts with a head table of 8 seats; resize it to fit your party.
The sweetheart table
A sweetheart table is a small table for just the two of you. It gives you a few quiet minutes during dinner and frees the wedding party to sit with their own partners and friends. It works well with a large wedding party or when partners would otherwise be split up.
A family head table
Some couples seat their parents at the head table instead of the wedding party, or as well. This works when families are close and blended families get along. If not, give each family its own table near the front.
Make it easy to leave
Whichever you choose, place it where you can step away easily for photos, toasts and greeting guests. A head table wedged against a wall makes every exit a performance.
Frequently asked questions
Who sits at the head table at a wedding?
The couple in the middle with the wedding party on either side, traditionally the best man next to the bride and the maid of honor next to the groom. Some couples seat parents there instead.
What is a sweetheart table?
A small table for only the couple. It gives you time together during dinner and lets the wedding party sit with their partners.
Where do wedding party partners sit?
At the head table if there is room, or at a table close to it, so they are not seated among strangers.